Today morning i got a call from one of my friend and she was like Kajol its his birthday ( 'He' here symbolizes a guy who is no more a part of her life). I simply said ' Ah, nice so you wished him ?' and i get a reply saying that why should i , he is no more a part of my life ! So what do you think i might have replied ? The succeeding paragraphs will let you reach my reply so keep reading :D.
You all must be wondering why should i talk about whats going on in my or my friends life but as my blog says 'Mirror View Of Myself', I am here to talk about things which as a matter of fact have happened ,are happening and will happen in every individuals livelihood so why not refrain from awkward moments and know the solution to tackle them. Am i blabbering a lot ? Probably yes , coming to the point .. look we all lose people in life and get adjusted with the situation and move on but that particular persons gap cannot be filled by anyone, though few deny this, its a universal truth.
So , if you still remember them for atleast 0.5% specially on their birthdays which previously you were a part of then let them know. Obviously he/she will still celebrate it with a new bunch of people because the world is large enough to find people but then a simple message of your's will get a smile on their face. You don't have to talk to them further but for a sec you just have to put your ego, hatred aside and just leave a message. It might bring life to the moment and get back your past or it might not. You should' not bother of the consequences because now you moved on ,don't expect." Love is all about giving and expecting nothing in return" .
I know its hard to forget all the anger or grudge you still hold against that person but you don't have to forget that , you are just keeping that aside and showing your care or love which is above all. So looks its so simple , friends whoever are'nt in talking terms with your close friends,lovers due to disputes please don't let your love take the back seat .
This might sound like philosophy and to be true even i think a lot over my closed one's who can't make it with me to my future , i even won't look on the brighter side of things but i realy miss them and finally i end up atleast wishing them on special occasions .
Now you must have surely guessed my reply and here it goes ... ' Dear , close all the doors of your mind and let no thought overshadow you, just don't care about the result,we will together handle it ..keep the phone on hold and just leave a message to him.' :)
A fruitful advice for the prevailing scenario though not the best but guarantees happiness .
St@y tuned
- love kajol <3
well said!! :)
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